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she might be pregnant and this is my plan. good or bad?

well if she is pregnant i plan to work after school i already have a job over a 1000 dollars in the bank im 16 in the summer my boss said i could have up to 40 hours a week i plan on buying most of the baby stuff like the crib changing station etc. i really would like to move in with her we’ve been dating for a year and plan to spend forever together i told her since she gave birth that i would get up since she carried it and went through that pain pay for daycare so she good finish highschool then get an education work. i only pay insurance on my car so its not a big deal for money. i basically just wanna give this kid the best life because it deserves it all kids do
i plan to move in with her and her family both our parents have good jobs and we plan to keep it theyd be willing to help out with the finaces
we wont be paying for doctors bills and things ion that area
id still like to hear peoples opinions

You sound like a outstanding young man! I’m proud of you for stepping up if she is pregnant… it sounds like you will do whatever is best for her and your baby. That’s really honorable.

While having a baby can be tough financially.. I think it’s hardest when it comes to adjusting to the new lifestyle and responsibilities. Prepare for that. It’s easier said then done! Babies take a lot of attention and love. If your parents are willing to help.. let them! Don’t take too much on yourself if you don’t have to. You sound like the kind of guy who will want to step up to be as good a provider and father as you can be at 16… but realize that you can’t fully be an adult yet. I remember being 16 (I’m only 22).. and until you are paying your own rent or mortgage, phone bill, car note, insurance, groceries, clothing, health care, etc… you have to remember that you are not an adult yet and you still have to be working towards becoming that.

If she is not pregnant, be more careful!!! Babies are a lot of hard work. It’s easy to hear that and be like “oh yea, of course they are.. and I can handle that”.. but until you have been a parent and understand all that goes into it… I honestly don’t think most adults are ready for it!

If she’s pregnant make sure to speak with both your families and be very open and honest about it. If you are going to be responsible and bring another life into the world … you owe it to that life to be open about him/her and be responsible about it. Good luck!

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